When you are suffering, look at your painful Mother.

You can't even imagine how much I prayed for you and your matters, that everything would be arranged as it is best. Dear father, when you suffer, look at your painful Mother with the dead Jesus in her arms. Compare your pain... By looking at the bloodied body of your God and the tears of the Virgin Mary, learn to suffer in peace, learn to comfort the Most Holy Virgin and weep over your sins...

(Teresa of Los Andes, letter to her father, November 26, 1919)