In love, there is perfection, not in adhering to rules.

Love is never abstract; it is always concrete. It is for others, just as Christ’s love was for us. In such love, there is perfection, not in keeping rules. They are meant to serve love and its deepening. Love is never finished. In its growth, the main factor is God, not us. Let Him do something as well, and surrender yourself as you are, with all your limitations and weaknesses.

(P. Vladimír Koudelka OP /1919–2003/, correspondence, letter from June 12, 1994)