Trust in Providence. Have faith that God will guide you and let you know when you are going in the wrong direction. If we have done everything we can reasonably do, then instead of endlessly pondering what to do, we must say to the Lord: It seems to me that after all the prayers, conversations, and discernment, you are calling me in this direction. And then we must take a step in that direction.
(Mary David Totah, OSB /1957–2017/, Joy in God)